"Accept The Outcome - Turn Your Negative Thoughts Towards Realization of Your Goal!"

Do you know that you should always accept the outcome, the realization of your goal - even before it actually happens? Accept it to be true. Claim it as yours already.

Now, you may ask, "Isn't that supposed to be easy? Isn't it natural to accept when it's a good thing that's coming to you?"

Ideally, it is supposed to be easy and very natural, like the analogy of "accepting" the air we breathe. Unfortunately, this is not always true. Some people actually find it hard to accept good things in life as they are experiencing negative emotions that block the flow of good things to them. When people feel low self-esteem, resentment, fear or guilt, it is difficult for them to receive from the universe.

To check if you are capable of accepting the outcome of your goal, ask yourself:"Am I willing to receive this fully?" Are you in a light, happy mood whenever you think about your goal, visualize it, and imagine its outcome?

If you do find out that a part of you feels you don't deserve the outcome of your goal, honestly ask yourself why. If this triggers a painful childhood memory, just allow the memory and the feeling to enter you and don't fight it. Should you feel that you need help sorting out your feelings and memories in order to heal your past, though, seek guidance from a trained counselor you can trust.

As you remember that memory, you can close your eyes and acknowledge it in your mind. Address it and say "You have hurt me before and I have carried you for a long time. But I will leave you now. You no longer have any power over me." Imagine walking away, feeling lighter and lighter with each step.

Now, to replace all the negative feelings associated with these painful memories with positive ones that boost your self-image, make affirmations about your worth every day, ideally upon waking up and before going to bed. Examples are:

"I am a unique, wonderful human being."

"I am getting better and better every day."

"I accept all the good things in life that come to me."

You can reinforce these positive feelings with a self-appreciation exercise:
Close your eyes, take deep breaths until you fully relax then picture a person close to you talking to you and telling everything they like about you. Even if you feel embarrassed, try to call to mind truthfully what this person would say to you. After they are finished, reverse roles. Assume the identity of the other person, and while you are telling yourself what you appreciate, feel the feelings of warmth and appreciation this person close to you has while talking to you. See yourself through their eyes. Notice how you feel.

As you build up your self-image, you are also building up your mind power to make your dreams come true.

Another emotion that can prevent you from accepting the realization of your goals or of good things in general is resentment. As resentment is a negative feeling and is accompanied by negative thoughts, your power to create good things in your life is significantly diminished. It is you, not the person you resent, who suffers.

Search your feelings - is there anyone you bear a grudge against or have not forgiven? Be honest. After you have identified the person or persons against whom you still have ill feelings, you can now start throwing away your resentment in order to fully accept the good things in life.

This is what you can do - write a letter pouring out all your feelings to the person. Write everything - do not leave anything out. After writing, throw away your letter or tear it up. Close your eyes and imagine the person in front of you. Tell that person: "You have caused me a lot of pain. But I am also causing myself pain by not forgiving you. Now I am letting you go. I forgive you." Slowly walk away from that person.

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